Baby can recognize its mother right after the birth, as the baby has eternal bonding with the mother by nature. It takes two months for a baby to recognize the father. After mother, a father plays the important role for the baby. So it is necessary for all children to develop a friendly relation with the father as well as the mother from the early age. Parent’s voice, appearance and even body odor can act as a context for their upbringing by creating a security sense in children.

Every Child starts to imitate their father from the very beginning as he is their first idol. A good relation with the father will help the child a firm psychological development. So every father should try to create a bond with the child since the birth.

Eight steps to creating a strong bond between father and child

It is not necessary to have a friendly relation between every child and father from the very beginning. A father should follow mentioned tips to build a nice and friendly relation with his child:

1.    Taking Care of Baby: As a father, you should take part in baby’s care so that the baby can feel love for you. You should have equal participation in changing cloth, playing, singing, storytelling as well as the mother. Because a child can feel about the surroundings, family and friends around them. A child can feel your touch so hugging or massaging can help you to build the attachment.

2. Don’t make any Discrepancy: As a father, you should treat equally your baby boy and girl. You have to make a healthy relation with your daughter too.

3. Don’t Scare the Baby: Never scare your child by placing yourself as a scary person. It can hamper the mental development of your loving child. Try to build a friendly relation with your child so that they can easily share anything with you.

4. Spend more Time with Your Child: Buying Child’s favorite food or toy is not your only duty. You have to spend sufficient time with your child. After office you can talk about their daily activity or can tell them bedtime story.

5. Never Abuse Them Physically: Bullying or physical abuse may have a long- term damage in your child’s mind. As an ideal father, you should try to manage any of their mischiefs with love and fun and make them understand about their wrong attitude.

6. Help Them in Study: Helping your child in their study as much as you can help you to build a firm relation. Only you can identify the latent talent of your child so you should take care of their intellectual development. You should praise them for their success and never try to create any competitive behavior in children.

7. Try not to make him a copy of yours: Every father has to be aware of their children’s own wishes and try to be generous. As a father, you should never influence your child’s future plan from your own dissatisfaction. You should rather discuss your opinion than force them.

8. Don’t Prevent Them Unnecessarily: Try to understand children’s plan and share your feedback but don’t try to control them in every step. Let them play and make friends and don’t let them do anything behind their parent.

Are you aware of the importance of your relation with child? or do you know future development of your child depends on your relationship? If you’re a concerned father, you need to know about these.

The upbringing of a child is the equal duty for both of parents, not more or less than the others. In some cases, the duty increases for the father as he has created the bond which plays an important role in child’s life.

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