Five Tips to Bond strongly with your child
A
child is an invaluable treasure to its parents. The relationship between the
mother and child starts before the birth of the child, and attains fullness
with his/her growth. A beautiful relationship between the mother and the child
helps him/her gain mental growth and skills along with enhancement of his/her
immunity system. However, at times, mothers may show unconsciousness which
might lead to a distance between them and their beloved children.
Here
are five tips to help mothers firm their bond with their children after their
birth.
Love
before birth:
Since
your child is growing little by little inside you, your feeling of love for his/her,
even before seeing his/her is neither abnormal nor strange. Scientists have
given a piece of surprising information that Oxytocin, a hormone, is grown in
the brain as the date of delivery approaches. This hormone plays a certain role
in creating relationship between the mother and the child.
Form
relationship of love:
As
the relationship between a mother and a child starts before the birth, try to
build a bond of love instead of one of responsibilities. Play or gossip with
your child and think like him/her. You will understand his likings, disliking,
feelings of good and bad.
Try
to understand indications made by your child:
As
different children deliver different indications, it is not that easy to
understand them. Try and find out the way your child expresses himself/herself.
Find out if your child becomes glad or flings hands/legs seeing you. With
hunger, a child makes cry with sharp voice, which may be different from cries
at other times. Find out what he likes; being in your lap or walking with you.
Repeat actions that he/she likes. It will strengthen your bond with him/her.
Speak,
laugh and play:
Your
voice and body language will distinguish you from others to your child and make
him familiar with your entity. So, speak to your child, play or make fun with
him, regardless of his/her age.
Feed
your baby yourself:
Working
women often have others take the responsibility of feeding babies. However, a
mother can get closest to her child while feeding or making him/her sleep. So, have
time and do this yourself.
Learn
a few more things to build a beautiful relationship with your beloved child.
·
Children often
love music or songs. Sing and dance or swing the cradle for your child chanting
his/her favorite one.
·
If you have any
grudge or dissatisfaction towards your child, remove that instantly and take
his/her in your arms since this is your child, either boy or girl.
·
Speak to your
child slowly and sing songs or lullaby while making him/her sleep. It will
intensify your bond.
·
Never force your
child for eating. He/she will make your understand when he/she feels hungry.
·
Leaving your
child alone while making him/her sleep causes your child to feel insecurity. Get
him to sleep in between you and your husband.
To build a beautiful relationship requires you endless patience and love. Accept the changes in your lifestyle influenced by your child’s living during the first few months of his/her birth. Remember only a little indifference may cause a great distance between you and your child for a lifetime.
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